Some of the problems all mothers must solve in learning to breast feed are how to hold the baby, how to place the breast nipple in the baby’s mouth, waiting for the breasts to become engorged with milk, knowing how much milk the child has taken etc. For the mother of a child with a cleft, it is tempting to attribute early problems to the cleft when they actually may be problems all mothers face during the learning process.
When feeding your baby, cradle him or her in your arms in a semi-sitting position with the infant’s body upright and tilted slightly backward. This position helps the child swallow and also prevents the flow of formula or milk into the nose. The child with a cleft may swallow more air when feeding than a child without a cleft. Therefore, he or she should be burped often.
Some parents worry that their infant will choke during feeding. Choking is usually caused by milk striking the back of the throat and is often the result of feeding too rapidly. Be sure the nipple opening is just large enough to allow the milk to flow freely with very little pressure against it. If milk pours out when the bottle is inverted, the opening is probably too large.